If I Am Not Beautiful How I Can Feel I Am Beautiful

Being beautiful or not beautiful is a Stump Blog very subjective issue. Think of that concept the same as garage sales; somebody’s junk is somebody else treasures. Being beautiful or not is also subject to culture, environment, and the social acceptance where you were born. When I was growing up in Vietnam, I was told by my grandmother that I was ugly more than once. She stated that I looked more like a boy with concise hair and dark skin, and I was very rebellious for a normal young Vietnamese girl. Also, in Vietnam, the more you look like the Westerners, the more beautiful you are. It was a social condition.


When I first came to the United States more than 30 years ago, I was followed everywhere by American boys. They told me I looked so exotic, and because I was so natural, it added more points to my charm. Once shunned by my grandmother, the dark skin is a ‘must’ have olive skin of the West. So, all of a sudden, I was called a beautiful woman. The concept was not readily accepted and believed by me for more than a decade, but eventually, it did sink in. But even the thought of not being beautiful did not close any doors that were supposed to be open for me because inside, I know I am an exceptional individual.

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So, to feel that you are beautiful, you need to redefine your definitions of beauty. Ask yourself if you have the kind of beauty you dream of, what difference, if any, brings to your life? When you sit down and write up all of the benefits you think being beautiful will bring to your life, you may realize that perhaps you can get all the same things and still be who you are right now. If the things that make you feel not beautiful are some physical shortcomings, you can raise the money and fix them. Make sure that your idea of beauty is realistic. Beauty comes in so many shapes and sizes. A rose is beautiful to someone, and a lily is beautiful to someone else. The trick is to find those that appreciate you and hang out with them more often.

Don’t strike to belong to groups of people that look down on you or make you feel ugly so that they can feel beautiful. An ugly woman can be beautiful if she “thinks” she is gorgeous, and likewise, a beautiful woman can be unsightly if she doesn’t believe it. So it also helps if you decide to be beautiful. Telling yourself that you’re gorgeous will not do much if you seriously think that you’re ugly. It would be best if you learned to redefine your definitions of attractive, as I said above.

There are so many beauty products in America that can enhance your attractiveness with little money out of your pocket. Browse the cosmetic counters and ask them to give you beauty lessons. Make sure you get a list of products they use on your face. Do not be shy. They are there to serve you. You don’t have to buy anything and learn to refuse their suggestions.

Ask more than one cosmetician to teach you. Please choose the most flattering one and then invest money to buy the same things they use for your face after you have tried several. Good luck with your quest to become one of the most beautiful women in the cosmos. Beautiful women’s website []. Here, you will find tips on skincare, eye care, and your beautiful soul.

Roberto Brock
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Snowboarder, traveler, DJ, Swiss design-head and HTML & CSS lover. Doing at the nexus of art and purpose to develop visual solutions that inform and persuade. I'm a designer and this is my work. Introvert. Coffee evangelist. Web buff. Extreme twitter advocate. Avid reader. Troublemaker.