Live The Life That Is Best For YOU!

Exploring the world, analyzing Try Updates different cultures, and meeting new people can help us see and live our lives from a new and different mindset. When we look at what others are going through, we will realize that the things we once thought were important no longer serve us. Instead of living a life of discontent, we learn to bring ourselves in line with contentment. We no longer chase down material things as a source of our happiness. We no longer view external things as a means of status and importance, and we no longer attach our pleasure to external things. We become content with who we are as a person internally. We no longer live from the outside in. Instead, we now live our lives from the inside out.

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Life can throw a curve ball at us, and it is that spirit of contentment that will help you address those life issues. That means that we do not need to argue our lives with anyone. That is why it is important to live the best life for You and not one dictated by someone else. That means no one outside of you has the right to your life and how you live your life. If you live your life by the dictation of others, your life will crash and burn. We all have the presence of mind, heart, soul, and spirit to know the best life for us.


Not all parents know what the best life is for their children. Some parents want to force the life they may have missed out on down their children’s throats, or they may have this notion of what their child should become without even speaking to and getting to know their children and not even considering the individual passion of children. They even go as far as to try to manipulate their children’s thoughts so that the child(ren) can become a clone of them.

As a self-assured, mature adult, you do not need anyone to manipulate your mind, forcing you to think like them. That is a raping of the mind and a violation of our individuality. If anyone is trying to manipulate you, they force you to live in pain with no sense of contentment in your life. Life is to be lived fully and passionately. There is nothing that you “should” be doing, nothing that you “ought” to be doing if those things cause you internal mental and emotional pain and anguish. Extra Update.

There is no race to be or do anything. Stop running around like a chicken without a head. There is nothing in life that you should be rushing to do or become. Relax and allow your life to bring you what you need. Living passionately has nothing to do with running to make your life happen. Ask yourself what you are running around trying to get for your life. Is that what you want? Is it making you feel happy and passionate about living?

We normally want parents and other family members to be proud of us. However, they have already lived their lives, and their life may not be your life. What they want for you is not what you want for yourself. Live the best life for you, and your parents and family, friends, and colleagues will learn to respect the new you. I used to be one of those individuals, although it was more about other family members than about parents. I had to learn to stand firmly on my feet and my values,  stand up to family members, and not allow them to run me over with what they thought was best for me and my life. The operative phrase here is “my life.

A few years ago, I had lunch with a friend, and after lunch, I had nothing to do: goodness, mercy me. I did not know what to do with myself. I felt lazy because I wanted to sit in Central Park and watch the ducks in the pond. The thought that I was lazy was leftover dirt stuck in my mind from my Jamaican upbringing. As a child, I was always thought to be lazy because I did not fit in with their programmed mentality of what a young female was supposed to be doing. I wasn’t lazy, but I let them think that.

Roberto Brock
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Snowboarder, traveler, DJ, Swiss design-head and HTML & CSS lover. Doing at the nexus of art and purpose to develop visual solutions that inform and persuade. I'm a designer and this is my work. Introvert. Coffee evangelist. Web buff. Extreme twitter advocate. Avid reader. Troublemaker.